It shows a selfishness on the part of the cheater, to follow their own greedy impulses, and a complete carelessness to risk the feelings of others. Sure everyone makes mistakes, but if there was a purpose and intent, I don’t think the guilty side can put up much of a defense.

I’ve never been in the situation to be cheated on or to cheat, however, so I don’t want to judge anyone who has cheated.  I just know that I don’t personally approve. 

But I am someone who believes in second chances; someone who believes in people. Maybe not all has to be lost.